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For YouIs Working From Home for You?

by Sarah Smiley

 

 

A friend who recently married and quit her city job to work at home said to me, “Maybe I should have children sooner than I had planned.”  She thought the freedom of working from home would give her renewed stamina and creativity for her job. Instead, she feels restless and bored, and the idea of children seems very appealing when she hears other women at home talking about trips to the park and making macaroni and cheese for lunch.  She has succumbed to procrastination and disorganization. For some, it seems, the pressure of an office and an in-the-flesh boss provides the motivation they need to get their work done.

Focus and discipline remain the biggest issues for work-at-home professionals. “For me, it was very hard to stay on task,” says M. J. Lauer. “ Not because I didn’t have a boss over my shoulder, but rather there was always something else that needed to be done, and I’ve always struggled with prioritizing when it came to my own business.“ 

Jennifer suggests that keeping regular working hours plus a separate telephone line specifically for work helps to maintain one’s focus. Santella adds that having a specific routine also makes it easier to stay on task. “I get up at around the same time every day regardless of my work specifics,” she said, “and I have an office above our garage.”

Ultimately, most work-at-home spouses are in agreement: When deciding on whether or not to transfer your job to the four walls of your home, give serious consideration to your ability to motivate and monitor yourself, but don’t overlook the many wonderful aspects of being home and available to your family.

The military may move you and your family.  Your “boss” in diapers may create distractions. But if you can manage the finer details of working from home, in the end, it just may prove to be a rewarding and flexible (for the most part) alternative for you and your military family.

 



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Suzie2/6/2008 10:25:52 AM
I agree with you that it's tough to work from home if you have kids, grandkids, laundry, etc. But what I've found is that a time schedule written on a piece paper, posted in front of my desk helps. I have chunks of 1 to 3 hours of time listed across the top of the page. Under each chunk of time I have listed general things I want to get done in that time period. For example: 6AM to 9AM I want to write, check e-mail, do teleclass phone calls, shower, and eat breakfast. When the next chunk of time arrives, I stop all the 6 to 9 activities and begin my 9AM to 10AM activities. If someone calls or I have to get my granddaughter to preschool I don't always get everything done in each chunk of time that I want, but at least when I get back to "work" I know by looking at my schedule what I need to be doing. This schedule seems to be silly for some people, but for a procrastinator like me--it's pure gold. Suzie Williamson
peterson12342/6/2008 12:00:13 PM
My husband just went into the military and I've been trying for months now to get a job, and it is hard. How can I go about working from home?
Suzie2/6/2008 9:11:10 PM
What do you like to do? Try to keep those things in mind when you decide on a career. I love to help people, research things, and find new ways to do things. My new career is perfect for me. I am a creative career consultant. I work from home and can work as much or little as I want. I wish I had found this career when I was living on base in Kodiak with 4 kids, my husband out on the ship, and enduring our 10th solid day of rain! There are a lot of things out there you can do from home by yourself, with someone else, or even a group. Online things, selling things out of your home (sometimes housing on base doesn't allow that), or selling things or a service to others in their homes or businesses.
TUPPERWAREMAMA23/20/2008 10:43:38 PM
hey check my website www.stackingbowls.com i've done this for 20yrs i have a 10 and 5 yr old and if you move or get reassinged keep yr business
FCWife236/9/2008 5:36:54 PM
I'm looking for a way to work from home. There's just so many scams out there. Does anyone know a REAL website or company I can look into. I'm not interested in selling things...I've tried it and didn't like it...nor did I really make any money at it.
D. L. Gaddis6/11/2008 9:33:04 PM
Does anyone know of a scam free website for work from home? Thank you. Dee
Bren8/27/2008 7:34:48 AM
Does anybody know of a site that I can look at. I really would like to work from home because my husband is leaving for a year in the morning. I'm so depressed this time and I have done this deployment thing before. I think it is where we are station at. HELP PLEASE!!!! MY HUSBAND IS KEEP TELLING ME THAT HE NEEDS ME. It Is so hard OF BEING A MILITARY SPOUSE AND FAMILY MEMBER THEY JUST DON'T HAVE A CLUE!!!! PLEASE ANYONE HELP....
Kre8tiveMemoreez9/1/2008 5:29:31 PM
wonderful post! I wish I would have read this years ago. I was having a hard time keeping jobs with all our military moves that I started my own home business, and at first it was hard to separate home from work, but there is some really good advice here~ espeacially the separate phone!

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