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Welcoming the TroopsWelcoming the Troops

And, then truly "Sending Them Home"


by Sarah Smiley
 
            
            
This morning, I joined the Maine Troop Greeters at Bangor International Airport in Bangor, Maine, which is the place where international flights bringing troops to and from points abroad arrive first in the United States. It is also the last place on US soil that many troops see before heading overseas. Several times a day, I hear the jets filled with troops flying overhead because my house is just one mile away from the airport, and when I do, I think, almost reflexively, about all the times my own military husband has left and come home again. I know there is a wife somewhere who said goodbye to her husband that morning, then came home to a towel still wet from his shower and his shoes kicked off at the closet door...so many reminders that the person who is now several time zones away was literally just there with you.

But that's just when I see the jets headed east.
           
When I see a jet coming the other way, returning to Bangor before taking off again to take the troops home, I feel a spontaneous rush of excitement. I think about the wife who is counting down the hours until her husband arrives. I picture her putting on twenty different outfits to find just the right one, then combing and re-combing her children's hair and realizing how much they have grown.

           
The Troops Greeters, an all-volunteer organization, gathers at the airport day or night to welcome troops on these flights. But they (the troops) aren't really "home" yet. Yes, they are in the US, but they still have a ways to go before arriving, in the case of this morning, in Colorado, where their loved ones wait.
          
"After 14 months away, I can't wait to get back on that plane and go home to my family," one young soldier said to me this morning, then he quickly excused himself to a corner of the lobby to use his cell phone. I knew he was calling his wife. I remember receiving those phone calls from Dustin: "I'm here! I'm actually in the United States! 

And in a few hours I will be home!" My heart would flutter so hard; I'd think it was going to jump right out of my chest. This morning, I knew there was a wife in Colorado feeling the same thing. And I couldn't have been happier for her. Because I know that later tonight, when I am getting in bed to go to sleep, another jet will fly above my house and it will be going the other direction.


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User comments:

Flossay10/22/2008 8:15:19 AM
So sweet! And I agree! :)
armyjules10/22/2008 8:29:34 AM
This really makes me wish I lived close to a major airport that has greeting parties! What an awesome show of support!
anangelsmom10/22/2008 9:20:19 AM
DFW air port does this as well.. they have Welcome Home gatherings all the time.. companies come in and stand and cheer and shack hands and give out things like water, phone cards and some times give them rides to place they may need to get to and some let the troops use their cell phones..one guy is called the cell phone guy he stands there and hands out 25 cell phones at a time for the troops to use to call home and they pass it on to the next guy or gal.. its a good thing to see.. so if you live in the DFW area (Dallas/Ft Worth) then go to the air port and sign up your company to be at one of the many home comings..you can do this at the USO booth they will call you when they will have a plane land and you and your friends can do something for the troops.... god bless us all.
jen ski10/22/2008 2:10:10 PM
Sarah, you are right on the money with this one! anangelsmom - my DH came back through DFW on the last deployment and experienced the welcome home group. He loved it! He said it was very overwhelming and much appreciated. My sincere thanks to those who faithfully offer this service.
SamnB10/23/2008 5:42:47 AM
Wow, that is so sweet. I love how people (though it may be very few) can care so much for someone they've never met! I love seeing my Fiances face whenever some random person comes up just to say "Thank you!" I wish I live closer too. I would help this in a heartbeat!
MrsJBSmith10/25/2008 8:23:32 PM
Only a few months ago I was in the DFW airport with my Husband and brother (both US Marines) and we seen this take place and we joined right in......it was an awesome feeling to be a part of that. I do wish that I lived in an area that did this so I could do it on a regular basis. God Bless Everyone!
pbShelley10/26/2008 3:15:28 PM
My husband flew through Bangor on his way to Iraq and the greeters were there to see him and his team off. He had already been in training for 2 months before he left so it was such a comfort to know someone was there to see him off and show some love and support.
Stephanie Lynn1/28/2009 2:03:16 PM
The ladies up at Bangor, ME are great! It was wonderful knowing that the last people my soldier sees stateside and the first people he'll see on the way back are so supportive of our military.
tsparks6/10/2009 8:20:44 AM
my husband just went though there three days ago, but sadly he is going overseas and wont be home for a while. Just to let you know i must be the other family from co because that is where we live right now. They came home and my husband took thier place overthere, but we all know that someone has to do the job. i love my husband with all of my heart and that is the one thing that will never change. So until he steps foot into bangor again i will count the months and then weeks until we are together again.
Navywife5190410/7/2009 12:34:05 PM
My husband just left last month and it was so nice being able to find him in the pictures these wonderful people took of them. Even though he was flying to Iraq and I would not hear from him for days I never felt closer then when I saw the pictures! These really are specail people that take time out of their day to brighten someone elses.
WarriorWife10/7/2009 4:09:47 PM
Sarah, My husband flew threw Bangor on his way to Iraq....he said how FANTASTIC everyone in the airport was to them. Cheering them, clapping, letting them know how proud they are of them. So thank you to you and all of you there who do that, it was a very nice last memory of the U.S. before leaving. And soon you can greet him home as he (hopefully) will be home by Christmas!!! Thank you again for being there for them...they appreciate it greatly!

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