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fort-hoodThe Tragedy of Inaction

by Heidi Smith Luedtke, PhD




When tragedy strikes, we ask ourselves “Why didn’t anyone stop this?” But we have a shared responsibility to our military community. Don’t let these factors silence you:

Self-Doubt – You want to be sure before you raise concerns. But the potential for violence may be obvious only after a tragic event occurs, cautions Dr. Nancy Zarse, Associate Professor of Forensic Psychology at the Chicago School of Professional Psychology. At that point, the result seems inevitable.

Excuses – You may excuse aggressive talk or action from military or law enforcement personnel, says Dr. Scott Hall, Army veteran and Professor of Counselor Education at the University of Dayton. Because these individuals are trained to handle chaos, you may assume they know how to manage anger. That isn’t always the case.

Denial –You may not want to face facts. It is emotionally disturbing to think someone you trust to assist you – such as a physician or superior – is unstable or dangerous, says Dr. Eugenia Weiss of the University of Southern California’s School of Social Work. Remember: they are only human.

Rationalization – You may think yourself out of acting. People make sarcastic comments and empty threats to blow off steam. (Who hasn’t wished a bad boss would suffer some terrible fate?!) Yet few commit violent acts.

Stigma – You may worry about consequences to the individual’s career, says Zarse. Or you may fear you’ll be labelled a snitch. Some anxiety is reasonable. But keep the greater good in mind. Many people may be victimized if you fail to act.

Take personal responsibility for reporting concerns. “Most people hope someone else will speak out or act” says Zarse. If everyone believes “someone else will intervene,” no one does. And community inaction can be devastating.


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Kari11/18/2009 3:11:10 PM
I am so tired of certain groups telling us we MUST be politically correct, we can NOT profile, we basically have less rights than those who commit these terrorits acts. If someone is acting out, ranting about the military and government, jerk their butts out. We should not be forced to tip toe around them.
txladi11/18/2009 3:50:17 PM
We as military wives feel safe when our husbands are home. We don't ever think that they are going to be attacked at work by one of their own! Can you imagine being a child locked down in a school for 6 hours? Or going to the commisary to pick up milk and bread and being stuck there for 6 hours, this has emotionally affected a lot of people here on Ft Hood. Not to mention the soldiers that were lost and injured. All that were saved is a true testament to how well our military is trained, it could have been much worse.
Kari11/18/2009 4:12:30 PM
I think you hit the nail on the head, we do feel safe when our husbands are at home. Which is why this has rocked our world so much. My husband was in the next building when all this went down. I live 3.5 hours from the base(he comes home on weekends) and have no contact for support. Several hours of not knowing and crying. Worst afternoon and evening of my life, but nothing compaired to the families who lost family members. Coworkers were great, but I knew they really did not understand. I was shocked when several days later I ran into people who did not even know it had happened. How could they have missed this. What was even harder was the people who treated it as just another day.
nlong6911/18/2009 4:48:04 PM
That is exactly the problem. Many times we report things especially suicide or other things but, guess what? Our spouses got repimended for or it and got into trouble for it from their nco's and warn us not to stick our noses where it don't belong.
nlong6911/18/2009 4:48:05 PM
That is exactly the problem. Many times we report things especially suicide or other things but, guess what? Our spouses got repimended for or it and got into trouble for it from their nco's and warn us not to stick our noses where it don't belong.

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