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Stretching Your Dating DollarStretching Your Dating Dollar

A few minutes of pre-date planning can leave you with money left over for a second date, or a second honeymoon!

by Ellie Kay

Weekly date nights with your spouse can add up to big bucks and put a significant dent in your family’s entertainment budget.  We’ve learned to stretch a dollar just like great conversation over coffee and save a significant amount of dating dollars to make those dinners financially palatable.  Here are a few ideas for you to do the same:

1. FSIs–Free-standing inserts (FSIs) are the coupon inserts in your Sunday paper.  Restaurant chains offer great coupon values in FSIs that can add up to 50 percent off the bill!

2. Newspapers–Scan the “Living” or “Entertainment” section of your local paper for weekly restaurant specials.  It may require going out on a Tuesday instead of a Wednesday to take advantage of a special.  What takes only about 20 seconds of your time can save you $20 (or more).

3. Internet–Find your favorite restaurant’s Web site and check out their specials.  Many sites offer printable coupons as well as weekly specials.

4. Two for One/One for Two!–If your fave place doesn’t offer a “buy one, get one free” special, then why not try the new trend of sharing a meal?  This savvy approach is especially smart at a restaurant that’s known for serving larger portions.  You may have to pay a small surcharge for an extra plate, but your wallet (and waistlines) will thank you.

5. Entertainment Books–These coupon books cost around $35 and are used for fundraising by nonprofit organizations.  Go to Entertainment.com to find offers near you.  Not only do they feature restaurant coupons, but they also offer great values on a variety of local and national services.  But be forewarned:  They’re not cost effective if you leave them at home!

To make your date night even more valuable, why not put the money you save each week into a special “second honeymoon” account?  I know of several couples who did this and were able to splurge on special trips for their anniversary.  This is not only good financial stewardship, but it’s a fabulous investment in your marriage!

 



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JamieRiley12/20/2007 8:32:04 AM
What great ideas! You can also save on babysitting costs by asking a friend to watch the kids for a few hours and in return you'll watch theirs when they go outn next week! Or...how about a date "in." Plan an early bed time for the kiddies, order that "special two-for-one dinner", borrow or rent a great movie and snuggle up on the couch for a relaxing evening with your sweetie! Jamie Riley
anangelsmom5/21/2008 2:02:08 PM
to us date nights are more important then family nights due to the kids are always in sprots and we go to every game and all the after parties and so on.. we feel that the kids need to see dad and mom taking care of their marriage is more for their education then them seeing us fight and not have any time to our selfs. we need to teach kids to take care of their love so that the love last a life time.. they need to see that dad and mom are doing whats best for them self and for the family.. our church taught on this .. there was a study done .. those who had date nights and took care of their marriages last long after the kids left for college ... marriage needs to come over the kids for kids leave and then what .. most divorces happen after kids leave for college.. because the parents had nothing more to say or do it was all about the kids and not them.. so for me and my house hold we honor marriage over the kids we take care of our relationship for the kids so when they leave they will not get news about mom and dad getting divorced due to there was nothing there.. it was me and him before kids and it will stay that way.. kids get what they need and we are making sure they get what it takes to be in a relationship if they want it to last and that means time away from the kids and time to our selfs as a party of two...and when kids see this you know they are seeing how a marriage works.. it works when two take care of the marriage.. God Marriage .. kids
anangelsmom5/21/2008 2:06:01 PM
oo forgot to add like the fist poster said these are some great ideas .. plus having a friend or family memeber watch the kids helps with saving money .. but make sure you take the kids off their hands too.. keep track so that no one gets treated unfairly.. sorry about my rant.. put most need to put their marriages first if they want them to last..

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