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Things to consider.

by Whitney Bailey 

 

Keep your house looking the same.  Just as a pile of newspapers and mail is a signal to criminals that you’re gone on vacation, a previously immaculate lawn looking overgrown and weedy can tip off others that you’re at home by yourself. 

Don’t hang service banners.  This may be both the easiest and hardest thing to do.  It can be a frustrating decision, but you should only hang service banners inside your home where they are not visible from the outside.  Also, if you are having service or repair work done in your home, be sure to remove anything that might notify a stranger that your spouse is away.

Avoid distribution lists.  Many groups create lists of deployed soldiers and distribute them to those who ask how they can help support our troops.  Their purpose is often to give others the opportunity to send packages or letters.  However, many people with good intentions will often photocopy and distribute the list even further.  Once this happens, there is no way to control who knows that your spouse is deployed. 

Invest in additional safety features.  Even if a high-tech security system is not an option, there are many other inexpensive ways to make your home safer and help give you peace of mind.  Motion sensors can be installed on previously existing exterior lighting and can alert you if someone is nearing your home. 

And,

  • -Avoid using “Keep my soldier safe” ribbons on your vehicle
  • -Ensure your home is well lit at night and entryways are visible
  • -Mow your grass often and keep your yard tidy
  • -Be wary of adding your name to support lists.  Ask questions and ensure that the list will not be distributed to others
  • -Talk to children about who they can and can’t tell about your spouse’s deployment
  • -Keep cars parked outside clean and move them frequently


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User comments:

Perchmommy7/23/2008 7:37:42 AM
This is an important topic. People aren't stupid though...they will notice your husband is NOT there, whether you live on or off-base. I think it is crucial to be prepared to deal with the questions that will come up from nosy neighbors.
Aubrey7/23/2008 7:45:22 AM
I agree. My husband's truck in the driveway for 8 months without being gone during the day is a pretty big tipoff. I'm lucky though that I live in a neighborhood that is mostly military and law enforcement. It's still a little scary though and you really have to think of ways to keep up the appearance that you're not alone.
tjandrj06197/23/2008 8:27:27 AM
I think this is an awesome topic to discuss, and should be discussed more. To make it look like my husband is around. I take the car to work in the mornings, and drive his truck in the afternoons. I always keep it moving. I may take my car one day, and his truck the next. Mix it up.
Anne7/23/2008 9:31:43 AM
Seems no different than what a single parent must endure. It's just that we're even more aware that we are alone, at least for the deployment. Still good advice to keep in mind.

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