Pearls of Wisdom
 
by Tanya Queiro, 2009 Military Spouse of the Year

As the end of the calendar year approaches, I begin to question and reflect on lessons I learned this year. It is an annual practice of mine to review the year and write down “pearls of wisdom” discovered and/or reaffirmed through my growth and maturity as a professional and spiritual being.

My list this year includes:

1. A kind deed lasts a lifetime. I can remember when a complete stranger helped changed my flat tire on the interstate in the rain; when friends and colleagues banned together to support me throughout the Military Spouse of the Year (MSOY) vetting process, and; when mentors cause paradigm shifts that permit me to expand my personal and professional goals.
2. Truly believe in your cause and with patience, things will fall into place. At the beginning of the year, my husband believed in me enough to know I would be the MSOY national winner. I believed in assisting our wounded warriors and their family enough, that I against the advice of some, I changed careers and now work for the cause I advocate for.
3. Everyone brings something to the table. Of course, I need to remember what’s on the menu and not all meals are cooked with the same seasonings
4. Rejoice in life’s triumphs, no matter how small. A smile…beautiful weather…waking up each morning…you never what you have until they are gone.
5. Think before you speak. An old adage, but one that is tried and true with every situation in life.
6. Thank people in your life. It is amazing how a simple “thank you” can change the course of one’s day. Randomly thank those who help others, showing genuine appreciation for their sacrifice and efforts.
   

I look forward to another year of growth and to the wonders life has in store. What “pearls of wisdom” did you learn this year? Share them with me at tanya@milspouse.com