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Reflections from an Obama Supporter

by Vivian Greentree

 

This past Saturday I went to hear Caroline Kennedy speak on behalf of Sen. Obama.  As she stood there -- with the weight of her family’s legacy of public service filling the room, appealing to us all to serve our nation in some way -- I clutched the book I was holding a little tighter.  I had intended to bring my copy of her book, Profiles in Courage for Our Time, but I couldn’t find it as I ran out the door.  Instead, I brought another favorite, A Patriot’s Handbook, on the off chance I could get close enough to ask her to sign it.  My desire to bring Profiles in Courage for our Time stems from my working in Georgia Governor Roy Barnes’ office the year he introduced a new Georgia flag – one that reduced the Confederate “stars and bars” and incorporated other historical Georgia emblems into our state pennant.  I was actually on the floor when he read the speech imploring passage of the bill. -- it was my first week on the job.  Barnes’ heroic and progressive move, as well as his other efforts to move Georgia forward by putting history behind us, is what is largely considered to have cost him his bid for re-election.  Barnes, however, will ultimately be judged to be on the right side of history, as evidenced by his Profile in Courage award.  I wanted her signature on his page of the book. 

In many ways it seems fitting that Caroline Kennedy was the last person I heard speak on behalf of Sen. Obama before Election Day.  Since Sen. Obama has gained national attention, he has repeatedly been compared to her father, President John Kennedy.  Obama is young, inspirational, evokes optimism -- and his wife is a sharp dresser to boot.  But what draws the parallel for me personally is the foundation upon which both men built their work in public service.  John Kennedy once asked us, “Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.”  Barack Obama has said, “Loving your country shouldn't just mean watching fireworks on the 4th of July.  Loving your country must means accepting your responsibility to do your part to change it.  If you do, your life will be richer; our country will be stronger.” 

Now that this election is over, I look forward to a renewed discussion on public service and what it means to have an engaged citizenry.  I want to celebrate our commonalities instead of our differences and be inclusive in our national discourse, knowing that we are the examples by which our children learn. 

I don’t think it is a stretch to say that for many military families national security and foreign policy are the lenses through which we see a lot of issues -- issues like energy, the economy, and international relations.  However, our family members serve regardless of who is in charge, regardless of who holds the most seats in Congress, and regardless of who gets elected to City Council.  We volunteer out of a sense of duty, responsibility, and civic pride, among many other things. 

To me, these are the patriotic ideals we should foster – these are the ideals we MUST foster – in order to preserve our way of living.  At the state and local level, we need to foster a culture that encourages attention to “responsibility” and not just “rights.”  One of the reasons I was so drawn to the Obama campaign was because of his emphasis on national service and volunteerism.  Sen. Obama has continually talked about expanding our military and other service organizations like the Peace Corps and AmeriCorps.  He has spoken on the need to attract younger generations to work in the public sector – whether it be government or non-profit – and how to socialize (and by that, Gov. Palin, I don’t mean in a Marxist way!) our youth to see themselves as a member of the global community.  Younger voters overwhelming support Sen. Obama, in part, because they are inspired by his vision for the future, but I’d also like to think there has been a shift in our national consciousness where working across the aisle for the national interest is seen as the greater good. 

There has been such an emphasis on voting, getting people to vote, voting early, making sure every vote counts…but that is only the first step.  Now that the voting is over, how will we, as a nation, continue to fulfill our civic responsibilities?  How will we encourage our children and our nation’s youth to do the same?


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hanklovesliz22411/5/2008 7:38:42 PM
Are you not scaredof what is to come of the military, in a socialistic society? To me it is very frightening. But I will keep my faith in God, and that will keep me and my family going.
Bedrie11/5/2008 8:00:59 PM
Liz, I beg you as a fellow military wife and as a fellow American: please stop thinking that the world will end just because we now have a black president. Have you not seen the joyful celebrations here in the US as well as abroad? Can you not understand what this election means in terms of history? A comment from a blog:------------Nothing in my life has actually changed in the 30 minutes since it was announced Obama will be our next president. I have the same bills, the same amount of money in the bank, my dishwasher is still broken, and my 5 month old beagle won't stop peeing on my carpet. Everything in my life is exactly the same as it was 30 minutes ago; and yet I feel as though everything is different. I feel so much hope. I feel so much pride. I feel like my one vote was a single drop of water in a great Tsunami of change. I feel like I was one of a million voices screaming in the night, " I love my country and I'm taking it back!" I'm so proud of the country that I love and have so much hope in my heart that we can together heal the wounds that have been such a source of pain and anger to us all. I know Obama isn't going to fix the economy overnight, I know he won't be able to provide healthcare to all Americans by February '09. I know Obama isn't a Messiah who four years from now will have turned this country into a fabled utopia. But I also know Obama will make moral decisions. I know Obama will try to unite where others try to divide. I know Obama will help to make America the beacon of hope it once was to others. I know that at 27 years of age, I witnessed one of the most important and hopefully glorious chapters in American history...... I know hope.
Lyle11/5/2008 8:09:30 PM
President Elect Obama scares the crud out of me. The Russians and the Iranians are already spouting off and the results are less than 24 hours old. I don't understand how ANYONE in the military could be a liberal.
Lyle11/5/2008 8:11:00 PM
And my fear of PE Obama has nothing to do with colour - his policies about being a socialist - close to being a Marxist scares me.
kungfuscribble11/5/2008 8:41:17 PM
I liked the follow through from your past article to the current one on your thoughts on volunteerism and on civic duty. It is amazing so many young voters got involved and so many people I know... I was thrilled to be a part of this... to witness it, and glad to see Obama just as humble. To all you nay sayers out there, how about focusing that negative energy into wishing and praying that he will be a sucessful president for all of America... ALL OF IT! One America!
Pamela11/5/2008 9:17:35 PM
So much negativity...so many sore losers. And yes, don't lie to yourselves, some of this dismay has to do with color. God, aren't we living in the 21st century? Vivian you did a wonderful, fantastic job of conveying the message of civic duty and volunteerism that every American should ascribe to. In the words of JFK: "Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country." Please??
Lawyer Mama11/5/2008 9:22:00 PM
Vivian - I have the same question. Now that so many people are engaged and excited about being involved, how do we sustain that? I know we can never expect involvement to be this intense 12 months out of the year, but it would be wonderful if people start thinking about how they can help 12 months out of the year.
Lawyer Mama11/5/2008 9:27:13 PM
Liz - I think many people have a basic misunderstanding of what socialism is. Go look it up. Trust me, Obama isn't a socialist no matter what Sarah Palin says. (Frankly I have serious doubts about her understanding of the term as well.) I haven't heard anything from him about the government taking ownership and control of the means of production and distribution of goods. THAT'S what socialism is. Please stop the scare mongering. It's counterproductive and only serves to divide our country at a time when we should be working together.
TLCESQ11/5/2008 9:28:59 PM
I was naive enough to think that, perhaps with an Obama victory, the vitriol and hate that has permeated this campaign from the "right" side would dissipate. A kumbayaa moment isn't coming any time soon, I guess. So we'll wait, and work, and hope that, with time, those of you who are so deathly afraid of Obama and what he represents will see the glory in his election, and see that he is not here to destroy your lives or the world. We are a better country for his election. My hope and faith is that someday you will see that, too. Barack Hussein Obama is the 44th President of the United States of America. Rejoice and be glad.
Lyle11/5/2008 9:52:18 PM
You are right about socialism - however - not taking "control" of health care and taking money from one person and giving it to another is not my idea of a good thing either. My wife has been in the Air Guard for almost 30 years - and between the 2 of us - we may get a hefty tax increase to pay for some poor scum who won't work for a living. I find THAT to be despicable.
lgreenawalt11/5/2008 11:41:06 PM
He's a socialist to the core! As for those of you who ask us to rejoice? Sorry, but where were you when the GOP won? Yep...that's what I thought...we've been hearing you moan and complain since the final tally was counted! I own my own business and I'm quite successful financially...and this moron wants to penalize a principle that makes this country so great; CAPITALISM. Yet, your candidate has blinded you with his Robin Hoodisms and promises all too familiar with the Democratic party...."let the government take care of you from cradle to grave!" Everybody wants the good life but nobody is willing to work for it! I'd love to say that I'm glad that someday I'll shoulder the burden of supporting the chronically lazy but I'm not. Excuse me if I don't rejoice with the rest of the deluded population. And please don't pull the race card on me...if McCain had the same socialist rhetoric I'd feel the same way about him! All of you who feel we fear this presidency because of it being 'the first black president' try an accusation that's a little more creative! As in all things, time will tell.
Lawyer Mama11/5/2008 11:46:50 PM
Lyle - Sigh...where to start.... (1.) Health care: Obama is NOT proposing government run health care. The Republican spin machine was pretty good on that one, but it's not true. He's proposing government funded INSURANCE for those who can't afford it or are uninsurable. Just like your insurance. There are 14 million children in this country that are uninsured. That's unconscionable in the richest country in the world. Children don't choose to be born poor. I, in fact, am uninsurable if I were forced to obtain private insurance because of some serious health complications that arose while I was pregnant. I'm not a deadbeat. I have a chronic disease. Just like the 11.4 million uninsured Americans with a chronic condition. Only I'm lucky to have employer-provided group health insurance where pre-existing conditions don't matter. (2.) "Taking money" and "giving it to others" is called taxing. Do you drive on roads? Do you work for the military? Your wife does. Do your children go to public schools? All paid for with taxes. If you make $250,000 a year (which is how much you'd need to make to see a tax increase), good for you. Know how much your taxes will go up? About $12. It's not much more up to about $650,000 in income. And this election hasn't been about welfare at all. (The myth of the welfare queen is a lecture for another day.) It's been about the economy, misusing our troops and overstretching them to the breaking point, and the completely irresponsible spending (again of TAXES) by the Republican administration.
Michele11/6/2008 8:09:09 AM
Vivian, I am not an Obama Supporter but am a supporter of the President/President Elect of the USA. I am a Republican. I am happy to see a Black American as President. I am sad that a Great Man with McCain's record did not make President to top his career and dedication to the USA. I do agree on the change in the Georgia Flag. I do agree with volunteerism. I will give Obama a chance to see what he can do in office...unlike the Bush nay-sayers since he started office. (Please do not hold expectations of others that you cannot hold yourself too, no matter your political preferences.) I will disagree on points and policies, I am sure. I do fear his too far left view points and his backers. I will watch and see what he does and judge on those accomplishments and not hold a grudge against the winner but look to the future and where it takes us, as God always has a plan...I just need to wait and see what it is!
KRD11/6/2008 8:22:31 AM
Wonderful column, Vivian. As for the nay-sayers - saying you love your country but dislike/distrust/distain your president and the majority of your fellow Americans who elected him is like saying you love your marriage but hate your spouse. That's not patriotism. The majority of us are people of good will, and there is common ground through which we can work together and make things better for our children. I ask the disaffected responders to consider giving up the unproductive distain you have for your other half, and find some common, positive ground, as Vivian suggests.
Sandy11/6/2008 5:44:06 PM
I have loved my country but disliked my president for the last eight years. I have not, however, called him petty names (though many have applied); doubted his love for the country (though his actions have not spoken clearly that he made choices based on that love); called hime a traitor (though his treatment of both Americans through wire tapping and imprisonment at Gitmo without proper trial might be considered anti-American principles); well...enough. Of course I could go on, but won't. We lived through it all and now we must repair the damage done. Now is the time to let someone else take a chance. For those of you so scared and feeling so violently opposed to the choice of your fellow Americans, I'd invite you to get your passports up to date - as you have said to us so many times over the last eight years. We stuck it out during your guys mess...now let the other side take a crack at fixing what ails us. Wait a year or two - or eight - then get back to us and let us all know if you are better off than you are today. I'm gonna betcha it's better, but if not, you get to put your guy (or gal) in there and I can think about the status of my passport!
Lyle11/6/2008 8:47:55 PM
Lawyer Mama, It doesn't matter who he raises taxes on - we will all pay. Yes I do use the roads - and they are in cruddy shape - the taxes at the pump have been redirected to social programs. My wife works hard in her military job - actually because Lansing is messing around with her new orders - she has not been paid in a month and a half - but she is still working. Back to the tax thing - when people who make over 150k, 200k, 250k (all numbers that have been spoken by the President Elect or his cronies)invest their money in their own company or others, they will have less to invest because the government will take a "fair" share. The only real tax system that would work would be either a true flat tax (everyone pays the same percentage - no deductions) or a consumption tax (i.e. sales tax). These are the only "fair" taxes. The current tax code is a mess, and every time the government adds taxes or changes taxes they just make it worse. I am sorry you have a preexisting condition - I also have one and my son ha Retinitis Pigmentosa (RP) - so he will probably go blind. Tax increases are another form of inflation - let's let the business of business go and they will in time - correct themselves. We should never have bailed out the financial institutions - I was against that - Senator McCain should have been against it as well - the stock market is still making the correction by themselves.
joss11/7/2008 5:35:05 AM
I only want to say this: there may be people who voted for Obama solely because he was black and there may be people who voted for McCain solely because they're closet racists. But I seriously doubt either group is very large or influential. I think people who voted for Obama liked his policies, like democrats, or wanted change. I think people who voted for McCain liked his policies (or disliked them less than they disliked Obama's), like Republicans, or wanted various things to stay the course. While the issue of skin color is what made the race so historic, I think it is a disservice to voters in either party to make much more of it than that.
ShaReJa11/7/2008 11:23:36 AM
I'm a former military reservist and still a military spouse. I believe that Obama won because some Americans are ready for a change. Some of the comments I have read, have almost bought tears to my eyes. No matter who the President is, we all need to respect them even is we don't agree with their policies. I don't think the world is going to end because Obama is our new President. He has a long hard road ahead of him and I only hope and pray that he can get bring about change the will benefit "ALL" Americans. I'm confident that he will do well and prove that he is capable of running this great Nation even if he young and not prior military. Have faith and trust in God and everything will be ok.
ILive4Him6/10/2009 11:20:36 AM
Are you happy with the "CHANGE"?

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