Explaining the Unexplainable

by Heidi Smith Luedtke, PhD




Last week’s tragic shootings at Fort Hood, TX, are especially troubling because they force us to confront violence at home – where we feel safest. We may try to explain what caused Major Nidal Malik Hasan to open fire on fellow soldiers or simply label him deranged or deviant to bolster our sense of security.

Unfortunately, quick conclusions regarding the causes of such a violent outburst may do more harm than good. In our rush to explain the unexplainable, we oversimplify important issues. Use the following tools to promote real understanding:

• Embrace questions. It may be uncomfortable to have more questions than answers, but learning requires uncertainty and curiosity.
• Explore alternatives. Human behavior is complex. Set aside fast conclusions (for instance, that violent individuals must be mentally ill) and examine the unique situation at hand.
• Beware stereotypes. Categories aren’t explanations. Hasan’s religious background and role as a mental health provider may be related to his rampage, but it is unfair to conclude he is a terrorist or that psychiatrists are crazier than their clients.
• Cultivate connections. Get to know those around you and take responsibility for community building.  Your installation can and should be a safe haven.

If, like me, you believe good can come from tragedy, join us at MilSpouse.com this week to  learn more about the warning signs of violence and find out what to do if you notice them. Working together, we can restore a safety and stability at home.

The Fort Hood Soldier Help Line is at (254) 553-3480. This service is 24 hours and is available to help Soldiers and Family members.