
Duty Station Culture
by Sarah Smiley
Moving around with the military affords people the opportunity to experience different cultures throughout our country and world. Because of this, and despite what some people believe, military families are usually the least sheltered or inexperienced. They have, in fact, such an eclectic realm of experiences; they bring a great deal of culture to the areas that they inhabit. It's no coincidence, for instance, that commissaries (the military's grocery store) on base often have a better selection of ethnic foods than local civilian stores. Military families grow accustomed to and expect the things that they have experienced, including food. Likewise, their home decor can be a virtual museum of the places they have traveled and lived: Japan, Europe, Hawaii, etc.
Part of this learning experience for military families, however, also involves area-specific activities, lingo and culture that can't (or won't) always be recreated in other places. In San Diego, for example, Dustin and I learned that the traffic on major roads is so reviled and legendary that instead of calling highways by their proper name ("Highway 5"), people insert an ominous, personified "The": "THE 5."
In Florida, we learned about screen enclosures for pools and how they are the first things to blow into your neighbor's yard during a hurricane. And when we lived along the Gulf of Mexico, just a stone’s throw away from lower Alabama, we learned how to discern the good bull riders from the bad ones.
Last week, at our new duty station in Bangor, Maine, Dustin and I received educations in a totally new area-specific activity and culture -- ice fishing. (Did I mention that for all the things we have experienced during our travels, Dustin and I haven't always been the most talented when we participate in them?) It was quite an eye- opener. Yet, another experience to add to the ever-growing list of things-I-never-would-have-done-if-not-for-the-military.
How about you? What experiences have you had through your travels in the military?