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BudgetCan You Afford to Enter (or Reenter) the Work Force?

The Pros and Cons

by  Phil Dyer, CFP, MOAA

 

One of the toughest decisions many families face after children come along is whether or not the stay-at-home parent  should enter or reenter the workforce. This is a particularly difficult decision for military families, given their transient way of life, two to four years at a duty station before having to pick up and move halfway across the country (or halfway around the world).

Conventional wisdom holds that both parents must work to make ends meet, but entering the workforce often carries significant hidden costs that should be taken into consideration before taking the leap. To determine which choice is right for your family, it is important to evaluate both the pros and cons of the stay-at-home spouse taking a job.

 Pros

  • More income—The single biggest reason that is cited for both spouses working is to increase the household income to cover rising housing prices, upgrade the family’s lifestyle or pay for private-school tuition. 
  • Retirement savings—Although a nonworking spouse is eligible for a spousal IRA tax deduction of up to $4,000 annually ($5,000 for those over age 50), company-based retirement plans, such as 401(k) plans, allow you to save much more ($15,000 annually in 2006 plus an additional $5,000 for those over age 50).
  • Qualifying for Social Security benefits—You must have 40 quarters (10 years) of qualifying work history to be eligible for Social Security benefits under your own name. 
  • Acquiring and improving job skills—While education is important for gaining marketable skills, “real-world” experience is crucial to staying current in today’s fast-paced work environment. Many who leave the workforce for even a few years find that their job skills are pretty rusty when they jump back into working.

Cons

  • Childcare costs—The cost of quality childcare is rising rapidly. If you have small children and cannot rely on a relative or friend for childcare support, full-time childcare can be enormously expensive.  According to the National Association of Child Care Resource and Referral Agencies, average childcare costs for an infant range from $3,800 to a whopping $13,500 per year, depending on where you live. Although costs decline as a child ages, having more than one child in care at once can make it cost prohibitive for a stay-at-home parent to return to work. 
  • Commuting costs—Unless you plan to work from home or live within walking distance of work, commuting costs can be expensive. According to the American Automobile Association (AAA), the average cost to operate an automobile is 52 cents per mile.  That cost per mile includes the price of gas, maintenance, financing, insurance and other expenses.  That means commuting 10,000 miles per year—relatively low mileage for a full-time job—would cost $5,200 plus per year. 
  • “Working” costs—Most jobs have some “hidden” costs, such as the cost of a work wardrobe, dry cleaning, restaurant or cafeteria meals (unless you pack your lunch each day) and even gifts for coworkers, that are usually far more substantial than most people realize. 

 



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USMC_Wife2/23/2008 8:51:23 PM
I would love to go back to a full-time job, but unfortanetly if I did, my pay would go to my childcare bill each week. I have 3 kids, a 10 year old, a 9 year old and a 6 year old. The cost where I live for one child afterschool care is $80. For 3 it would be $240!! As much as I love working, I just can't afford it. I wish there were more legitimate opportunities for a SAHM career. That's a suggestion for a topic-Legitimate Home-Based Opportunities.
Rashel2/26/2008 12:15:45 AM
I too am a stay ant home mom of 3 children 5, 3 and 1. It would be impossible for me to go to work and have all my hard earned paychecks go to daycare. The only way we would make money off of me working would be for me to work the hours that my husband isnt working. And then would we be able to have OUR time? Thanks to my best friend, I have been introduced to a REAL company and a great opportunity that i can truley do from home and work my own hours and is MY OWN BUSINESS. I am my own boss. I am having sooooooooo much FUN, am able to be with my family, yet still support my family. What a great Opportunity. I make and sell All Natural Soy Candles. And it is a great way for our family to be involved in something together.
Shanderico2/26/2008 9:14:36 AM
I am also a stay at home mom. We have 4 children 3 girls (12, 10, and 5) and a son (2). I would love to go back to work as well but childcare expenses here is extremely too high. I decided well I can take college classes online to help improve our income for the future. I am currently taking online classes at Baker.edu. I will be finished in no time and back working before you no it!
monicastocker744/8/2008 10:21:00 AM
US ARMY WIFE_________I am also a stay at home mother of 3; ages 7,4,2. Finding a job that allows me to work the same hours as school hours is near impossible! My husband is having a hard time grasping this! Why aren't there more companys that cater to OUR needs, as we are the care takers for our families? A site called CAFEMOM offers some help for stay at home moms find work from home businesses. I'm still searching, seeing as the site offers sooo many opportunities!
Ishezeesgurl4/22/2008 12:56:21 PM
Hello all I am a US Army Wife and I have lived on base for about two weeks. I have over 9 years customer service and Insurance but when you moved up here to Fort Drum I found that Daycare for my 3 children is to much. (6, 3,1) For after school care its 80 a month and 298 for all day care for one child and 238 for the second. That is way to much.

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